Shalom,
Today I want to share THIS from Andrew Womack's devotional.
Honor Your Parents
John 19:26 'When Jesus therefore saw
his mother, and the disciple standing by, whom he loved, he saith unto his
mother, Woman, behold thy son!'
Children are to honor their parents,
even after they become adults. However, the command to obey is temporary
(Galatians 4:1-2). Honor naturally leads to obedience if nothing is asked
contrary to God's laws, but honor and obedience are not synonymous. The
scriptures teach that when a child marries he is to leave his father and mother
and cleave unto his mate (Genesis 2:24). Parental dominance that extends into
marriage is the source of many divorces and much marital strife. Yet, a child
is to honor his parents for all their life.
The definition of the word 'honor'
means 'to esteem, respect', and the Greek word from which 'honor' is translated
means 'to prize, i.e. to fix a valuation upon' (Strong). There are many
applications of children honoring their parents. Certainly, one of the
violations of this commandment today, is children esteeming and respecting the
opinions of their peers above those of their parents. The idea that parents are
out of date and therefore out of touch, is a devaluation of parents. Children
should value the experience and wisdom of their parents more than their peers.
It says in Exodus 20:12 and
Deuteronomy 5:16 that honoring your father and mother is the first commandment
with a promise. This command is the first one of the Ten Commandments that
gives a promise of blessing to those who obey it. The promised blessing is long
life and things going well.
John is the only gospel writer to
give us this account of Jesus' last ministry to His mother. Even in the face of
His own extreme suffering, Jesus thought of His mother and honored her by
making sure that she would be taken care of after His departure.
This is something that the Lord had to reveal to me as a correction in my life because I was not honoring my parents. When I received that correction and changed my thinking, and actions, to agree with God and His Word, I saw tremendous blessings begin to pour into my life! Obeying God's Word is VITAL for us to walk in favor and all that HE has planned for us to walk in! Make whatever adjustments are needful in your life and you, too, will be tremendously BLESSED! Here is Hillsong with "Your Word":
Shalom in Him!